Another glimpse was how people create 'what if' scenarios then react to them as if they were real, thereby making it real.
It all started when i was sitting in my daughters house talking to her.
were in the lounge room and i was looking out the window as i explained
to her that it was too difficult for me to fix her reversing lights
when her car appeared to be moving backwards!
i dashed to my feet
and ran outside just in time to see it crash through the gate,
collecting both front doors and folding them right around against the
front mudguards on its way across the road and crashed into the front
left side headlight and pushing the front of my car across about a yard.
Well, there is the original flush of adrenaline, then the shock
while assessment occurs. Here is where the 'what if' scenarios start. i
guess habit might kick in with the type of constructs that happen. A
pessimist would instantly look for the worst possible outcomes while an
optimist will build equally detailed possibilities for the future. These
will occur because of the mind being in its element when it comes to
constructing stories. The problem comes when a person reacts to the
constructs as though they were real with great emotion.
One of us
reacted to the possibility that my 2yr old grandson might have been
behind the car and would have surely been killed or at least maimed
severely. The other reacted with great relief that my car was there to
stop hers from crashing through the flimsy back gate and down a steep
hill into the bedroom of a house. Both were emotional reactions to 'what
It was then it hit me. i saw the incredible influence this has on normal daily life. We are constantly reacting to 'what if' scenarios.
what if i get rich?
what if poverty moves in?
what if 'i don't know?'